Since my DS started year 7 there has been one problem after another with his behaviour at school and attitude. He is a bright boy with no SEN and no identifiable 'excuse' for his can't be arsed attitude, laziness and lack of respect for authority
DH and I are both graduate professionals, not super high achieving or anything but typical MC parents who managed to conform in the education system.
We have previously got away with a fairly relaxed and gentle parenting style and being very strict and serious doesn't come naturally to either of us.
Our year 9 DD is thriving and a hard worker so we have never needed to be pushy parents with her as she just gets on with it.
We are trying our best to support, cajole and lecture DS to get him to understand the importance of education and keeping out of trouble but I feel we are falling short and must doing something wrong
The situation is really getting me down now
Any advice welcome on successfully parenting an unmotivated and lazy child who is clearly bright and naturally academic but just can't be arsed!
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Out of my depth parenting difficult year 7 DS :-(
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shaggedthruahedgebackwards · 07/03/2017 20:32
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