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What can I do :(:(

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Mummyof21988 Wed 04-Jan-17 09:12:16

Hi very long winded but I will try cut short basically I have 2 children 2 different fathers my 1st child's father didn't want anything to do with me anymore when I told him I was pregnant and I've never seen or heard from him again going on 9 years now and my second child's father brought my 1st up and left out the blue when my second was a baby he stopped filing for contact 6 years ago now I am now going through divorce from my husband of 4 years and I can't help but feel soooo guilty on my 2 children with what they have been through they a lovely children and so well behaved I just have this constant worry that I've let them down so much and I always feel I don't give them the attention they need 😔 I take antidepresents as it is and I'm currently pregnant which isn't helping with the mood I think but what can I do to stop this guilt 😔

CocktailQueen Wed 04-Jan-17 09:14:37

Who's the father of this third baby?

I'd claim child support from all your children's fathers and move on.

The guilt isn't yours; your exes should be feeling guilty for the way they have behaved.

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