Please bare with me as totally new to this and no idea what I'm doing or if I'm posting in the right topic?
I have a 7 year old daughters and I'm separated from her father. On/ off for 8 years but been split for 2 now. Split was amicably and we have always 90 percent of the time agreed on stuff and worked very well together on our child's upbringing. He's in a relationship and has been for the last 21 months and he lives with her and her children, he was seeing her 3 nights a week which was cut down to 1 night and two nights for tea due to work commitments. had a little trouble last year in regards to alleged drugs and obviously stopped my daughter from going to their property, never stopped her from seeing her dad. Just from going to the property and seeked legal advise, in the end we resolved issues amicably and I allowed my child to
Go back around under certain terms and everything has been fine apart from a few blips with his other half. Recently my ex and his girlfriend had a huge arguments, arguments happen, that's understandable, however this argument resulted in her kicking him out along with my child at 7pm and me having to collect my child who was crying in my arms for an hour and then she spent the next day in school upset about it. He was adamant they were over and he was going to find somewhere to live etc, even went as far as declaring himself with no where to live and then a week later he's back with her and demanding my child be allowed back to the house. I have completely refused, I've said he can see her, whenever he wishes. His mum and sister have even offered him somewhere to stay when he has her and he's not taking it,Instead he's saying I'm being awkward and stopping him from Having time with his child. Legally when she's with him I cannot stop him from taking her to the property, he has at this moment in time respected what I have asked, however I have a daily battle of text messages telling me how I'm selfish and not thinking of my child. Basically skating my decision.When he is seeing her, he's asking her questions and texting me constant shit. He's now started saying he's going to take her back to the property, I don't want my child around a woman who has no care for my child surely as a mother I'm allowed To do that? I'm all for fathers rights but in all this uproar for fathers rights what the hell happened to the mothers rights?! Am I doing the right thing? Would you stop your child from going to the property?
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Nicolelea26 · 28/12/2016 23:22
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