I know that this is completely normal but I'm just after any tips, or people that can share with my experience as it's driving me nuts!
11 mo DS is a very active baby always on the go, crawling. He's going through a separation anxiety phase and cries when I leave the room and follows me literally everywhere. I try to be very sensitive to this and spend as much time as I can ensuring he feels comforted. He clings to my legs to be picked up so I pick him up but the second I do he is thrashing and writhing to be put down again, I put him down and he cries and starts clinging to my legs again. I would be happy to carry him and cuddle him all day if he'd let me, but the constant pick up/put down/cry cycle is driving me nuts!!!
He won't let me hold him in a "hip carry" whilst I get on with things like making meals etc. - for some reason this position doesn't work, I can get his legs either side of me (if that makes sense) but he always lunges forwards and backwards so I can't carry him safely like this.
A sling sometimes works but often he wriggles to be let out, it's also such a faff to get him in it to have to take him straight back out again.
I feel like whatever I do he's not happy and this sounds terrible but I'm starting to feel like I don't like him that much at the moment because I'm getting irritable with him, and him not allowing me to cuddle him sort of fuels this feeling. Feel terrible about this bit!
Can anyone share this experience?!
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11 mo DS won't be still for a second!
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catlike1979 · 18/12/2016 10:15
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