I have a 14 week old and still feel like it hasn't got any easier.
Everything I read says how much easier it gets after 3 months and if anything it's actually harder. I used to take ds out for a walk in the pram which was our guaranteed way to get him to sleep.. until he got to about 11 weeks, now every time we go out he ends up not sleeping, getting overtired (I think) and crying.
I feel so confused by his cues- when I think he's tired I take him up to a dark room and sit with him in the rocking chair- this seems to make him overtired and jittery too. The only way I can get him to sleep is in the sling and he only sleeps after about 10 mins of him crying and me bouncing.
This is starting to make me feel really down as I now can't really do much as he won't sleep in the pram, I'm exhausted as he only sleeps as long as I'm moving. I feel like I'm doing it all wrong as we still don't have much of a routine- this is how most days look:
7.30ish am- dp gives ds bottle
Plays with him til 8.30iSh
8.30-8.45 - put in sling to sleep
9 - ds normally asleep
10.30- I normally sit down around now which wakes ds
10.3o - feed
11 tummy time, bouncy chair etc
I look for tired signals, I nornally put him back in sling around 12ish
1.30 - stop moving, ds wakes so I feed
2ish playtime
3ish sling And sleep
5.30 stop moving wake and feed
6 dp home - who normally wears him in the sling for the evening
8.30 feed then ds puts him back in sling, then manages to swaddle him while he's asleep to put him down
During the night he wakes every 3 hours for feeds and normally falls asleep straight away.
I loosely follow the EASY routine (just don't get any of the 'you' part).
Can anyone see where I'm going wrong here? So confused by ds, not sure if I'm trying to make him sleep too much which is why he resists and cries so much? Or is he constantly overtired? He's getting way more sleep now than he did as a newborn.
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Cinnamon84 · 21/11/2016 17:06
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