My 3 year old is a fairly active boy who will eat a huge variety of foods but I'm worried about his weight and I'd like to hear from parents of older children who had this issue at a younger age to see how it resolved (or not).
He is rather plump with a large distended/bloated stomach. He had a health issue which the dr thought was the probable cause of this but it has apparently been resolved. He is short for his age.
We generally eat a reasonably healthy diet and although we do eat quite big portions, my husband and I are both slim and towards the lower end of a healthy bmi.
He used to never self limit his food and would constantly moan he was hungry. I thought it was a reaction to me limiting him so I let him eat as much as he wanted which seemed to help a little - and now it's really mostly with bread, cereal, pasta etc or sweet things eg puddings and fruit.
Friends and nursery workers, not used to children without self regulation, think it's great he eats so much and family members are dismissive saying he'll have a growth spurt and even out. Well, he's nearly 4 and it hasn't happened yet.
A typical diet might be granary toast with pbj or a low sugar low refined cereal for breakfast with semi skimmed milk, egg spinach and tomato on toast for lunch, fish rice baked beans and broccoli for dinner. Snacks may be a few pieces of fruit, a carrot, a few flavoured rice cakes, a yoghurt, a small piece of home made flapjack, some diluted juice (he's rubbish at drinking water). Occasionally we'll eat things like chips or a cake or biscuit in a cafe and on holiday or with family we'll relax and let him eat whatever / what everyone else is eating.
He will ask for more and more and say he's hungry minutes after eating a huge meal, I think he loves the feeling of eating tbh and it could be partly boredom?? I don't know whether he's really hungry thought and hate to deny him if he is so will offer something healthy if he persists - and I always offer a drink first.
He is often tired as he wakes early - often 5.30 - and i wonder if this has a lot to do with it but I don't know how to get him to sleep more.
I'm so worried I'm setting him up for a life of obesity and health issues. The dr is monitoring his height and weight but because it's not getting worse (although also not better) they don't have a lot of time for us.
Sorry it's so long. I hope someone can offer some help. My instinct tells me he may have a food intolerance but I know I sound like a faddy mum saying that.
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Worried about 3 year old's weight
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puglife15 · 10/10/2016 02:06
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