Hi
I have a just 9 year old who has a short fuse. He has always found it quite easy to lose the plot. He hates injustice...being fouled at football and not getting a free kick, and he has previously responded like a petulant 2 year old with a strop, tears, bad language and running away.
He is the youngest in his year and the smallest so he feels he is constantly battling to stay on the same page as his peers. I think this makes him anxious and worried about new situations and changes.
He can be amazing and at school he is a prince and they cant say a bad word about him. Its his home attitude to us and his sister and I am not sure where to go next. He swears at her, gets cross so easily...she does sometimes wind him up but tbf she has had to put up with his behaviour for so long. He thinks its unfair that she gets to do different things to him, go out with her friends etc, but she is at high school, so we have explained that when he is the same age then those rules will then apply to him.
We have tried star charts, pocket money, taking away the things he loves the most...nothing seems to work...he can be incredibly sorry but that only lasts a day or so...
He has spent time with the pastoral teacher at school but I am not sure if she is qualified enough to give us the strategies and tools we need to handle this behaviour.
Any tips peeps...
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Meandkids · 16/08/2016 14:48
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