I have no idea what's going on but my DS started hitting when I say no to something. This evening was the worst. It escalated and I totally lost it and shouted at him really really bad. He didn't seem to care and laughed.
I then put him in a thinking spot (never done it before) and he got scared I think and started crying. He stayed there for a bit and then came down, gave me a hug and apologized.
I put him to bed and said to him I was extremely disappointed and very sad, and he broke down again and said I was mean.
I told him I loved him but that I was very hurt.
what have I done wrong?!
I know I am terribly stressed and snap easily but tonight was awful, I felt I had no control over the situation.
He is a lovely sensitive sweet boy. I have always been very aware of his needs and followed his lead, but since he turned four I am a bit at lost. Don't know if I am expecting too much (as he seems so grown up now) or what.
Can someone please help me get back on track?
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IamAporcupine · 05/07/2016 22:05
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