This might be a bit long but I don't want to drip feed.
DD is 3yo, at nursery school. There is a little girl in her class, let's call her A. When nursery started A became instant "best friends" with another girl B. Rest of the class (including DD) all friendly with each other but no other best friends. No problem.
We became friendly with B's parents and a few months ago they told us B is often upset by A, eg A won't let her play with other kids (which often means my DD as she tries to be friendly with both A and B).
Now over the last month or two DD has started to report things that A has said to her which had clearly upset her, eg A says I look like a boy. A says I don't have any friends. A sometimes lets me play but sometimes makes me stay on the side. I wish I was A's friend. A says nobody likes me. Etc. Last night DD was in tears about all this stuff, particularly being excluded from playing. This is really unusual for DD, she's not an especially sensitive sort of child usually.
I'm not sure what to do? So far I have told DD that A is not right and she has lots of friends and that X, Y and Z are all her friends. (Nursery have always told us DD has plenty of friends). And I tell her that if A won't let her play or says things that make her sad she should ignore A and go and play with someone else.
Is there anything else I could/should do? Should I raise it with nursery? I don't want to make a mountain out of a molehill, after all this kind of thing is bound to happen at some point I guess - I just didn't expect it so soon.
I remember having periods of being deliberately left out when I was at junior school and I know how hurtful it is... I really didn't want this to happen to DD
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How do I help DD (3yo) deal with this girl in her class?
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minipie · 28/06/2016 16:23
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