Is this normal? Is it a phase? (Please god tell me it's a phase he will grow out of, he is driving me mad).
What should I do? How strict should I be? I try to always punish extreme bad behaviour (hitting, kicking, hurting his baby brother, answering back etc) with removal of a star from his chart or time out for any violence. But aside from these things I seem to spend the whole day saying "DS DONT do that. Stop it. Don't do that" over and over and over again.
Spent the weekend with my friend who has a very calm, placid, well behaved little girl of the same age which has just made me feel dreadful, like we are missing some sort of parenting trick which if we discovered it we too could have a lovely calm happy life instead of a life full of nagging and shouting, and boisterous silliness 😫
Examples of his constant annoying behaviour are:
- making daft silly noises all the time. Mooing, yelling, shrieking for no reason, singing in a loud annoying voice even at the table despite frequently being asked/told not to.
- running everywhere...wanting to run and jump about all the time even in the supermarket and other places where it's not socially acceptable. And in places where it's not safe (car parks....although he is better with this and will walk normally when reminded that a car might hurt him. But in a shopping centre when there's no danger he just doesn't see why he should walk nicely and doesn't seem capable of it!).
- answering back like a stroppy teenager.
- pulling horrible faces at me and roaring like a deranged dinosaur at my when I ask him to do something he doesn't wanna do (get dressed or try for a wee before we go out are real flash points for this horrible behaviour).
Does anyone else have a 3yo like this?? I feel so alone amongst my friends with their calm, pliant, shy, cautious children of the same age.