Hello ,
I have spoken at detail to friends and family however feel like they do not provide me with an impartial view on this due to the way my DCs father has treated me.
Short version he left for OW when I was pregnant with DC3. In the beginning he maintained regular contact and when the time was right he had DC3. He had another child when DC3 was just 1. We continued numerous reconciliations despite him being with OW however (luckily) none of them were successful.
The final attempt just before xmas lead to a huge blow up and we haven't spoken since (no contact with children or maintenance payments). I have gotten on with it to a degree. Contacted him via text following DC1 asking me when she was going to see him again and got a reply about him not being well and so he couldn't see them (at the time I thought this was an excuse).
I have been as honest as I can be with DC1 in particular due to her age (8, others are 4 and just 2) while protecting their emotional wellbeing. DC1 is a particularly sensitive child and has always been close to her dad.
I found out recently that he has been sectioned under the Mental Health Act and therefore told DC1 (she brought him up in conversation) as I thought at leat this provides a reason so she doesn't think its something she has done. She's had a complete meltdown.
Please- someone give me some tips on protecting her emotionally. While I appreciate ex is poorly he is also a pr*ck and contact has slowly detreated to this level. I have received no information from his family or the OW despite enquiring for the sake of my children and therefore am not anticipating contact any time soon even if his condition improves.
Thanks in advance
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hmmmcupcakes456 · 19/04/2016 20:37
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