Last October I fell out with a mother over my child. Her child had hurt my daughter and made her cry uncontrollably. When I approached the mother she didn't want to know, she was rude and talked down to me in front of my child who was really upset. Needless to say we exchanged a few choice words and I took my child home. Not one person came to my aid.
The next day she told all the mothers on the school playground who sided with her. She goes out of her way to let me know that she doesn't like me, she gives me dirty looks and pulls an unpleasant face when she walks past me. It's so unpleasant and I'm sick of her spiteful behaviour.
As is always the case the children are now good friends so to be the better person I invited her child to my daughters party, to my surprise the mother accepted the invitation straight away. I took this as an olive branch but leading up to the party when I spoke to this women, I was trying to be polite, she looked me up and down in disgust and ignored me. Her husband does the same. She came to the party and made a point of totally ignoring me, she stood with her vile friends sniggering at me! It was awful!
So I decided to contact her and suggested we leave the past where it was and move on. She said no! It takes some hard face madam to want to hold on to grudge.
The school run is unbearable, there is a whole group of them whispering about me. I never get asked to any social events. If i do take my daughter to a party she is always there whispering with the other mothers and they are all on her side. People are so too faced.
I am a strong person but I don't know what to do, this woman is deliberatly going out of her way to hold a grudge and upset me she is on the PTA. When I drop my child off at the school and walk home there are a group of them waiting outside the school gate and I hold my head up high and have to walk past. It bothers me but I'm not going to show it!
I have spoken to the school about it informally who will watch the situation but what can they do. My children keep asking me why I don't make friends with the woman - what can I say.bim so sick of it. Can anyone help or have they had similar experiences?
Sorry I know it's a long rant!
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Unpleasant, bitchy school mothers
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Sexy1 · 22/03/2016 09:10
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