Ds is 4 and has been going to his pre school for a year now.
Periodically we go through phases of him crying and screaming that he doesn't want to go, that he hates it, that he just wants to be at home etc etc. He refuses to get out of the car, to take his coat off, to go in to his room, all the while crying. The thing is, he loves it. It's fab, they're brilliant with him, he's always settled down within a few minutes of me leaving and then always gets a glowing report when I come to pick him up. He's usually bouncing around, the picture of happiness and sometimes I can't get him to leave
I am finding it really hard work to deal with him going on about how much he hates it, begging not to go and to stay with me and the effort involved in getting him in. I know this is probably fairly normal behaviour, and sometimes he'll go for weeks trotting off quite happily, but when he goes through these phases I find myself getting really cross with him and I don't know how to handle it because there is not actually a problem to solve if that makes sense. It's not that there is anything wrong with pre school it's just that he gets the idea in his head that he doesn't want to go. I just end up getting cross and frustrated and shouting at him to just get on with it, which I hate.
He does 2.5 days so does have plenty of time at home as well.
Any ideas firstly on how I can keep my patience a bit better and secondly on how I can encourage him not to get in such a state about something he actually loves?!
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How to deal better with ds and pre school
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Cloudybutwarm · 07/01/2016 11:43
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