Hi im Jordan (sorry if posting in the wrong part, have just joined the forum) I am 18 and 8 days ago was given custody of my 2 month old daughter. She came straight from the hospital and in to my custody (as she was premature) Me and her mum where not together, I did know she was even pregnant until the baby was born when her mum phoned me and told me which was confirmed with DNA. She is 23 and already has 2 kids (one who is in care and the other one her step mum and dad have custody of) Social services already had concerns and she voluntary gave me full custody of Zara.
Things have been okay although tough, but my mum has been helping me with her a lot and I am getting the hang of things. Social services visited us but had no concerns so have had no further contact from them so can not ask them from info. The health visitor has been over a few times but has not advised me regarding finances.
I work as an apprentice mechanic on minimum wage and have to put a big majority of that on rent. My mum can only help me out financially a little bit (she has emptied her savings that where supposed to be used to go on holiday, which wasn't much at all) we got a free cot off of gumtree and have managed to buy cheap essentials and clothes. It's horrible having to see her wearing hand down bad conditioned clothes and not have any nice things. If I had knew I would have saved as much as I could.
What financial help can I get in this situation if any? All I am getting at the moment is the £20 a week child benefit which just about pays for her milk and nappies. I was wondering if I am able to get the maternity grant? I read online you can only have it for one child but I assume she had it for her first child as she's not worked. If this is the case would I still be able to claim it?
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