It was going so well: ds1 (2.11yo) started toilet training 4 weeks ago.
By day 3 he was getting all his wees in the loo.
It took longer (2 weeks!) for him to get the hang of poos and we had 2 weeks of poo in pants before he managed to get one in the loo, and then it seemed to click.
Fast forward 2 weeks and it seems like the novelty of using the loo is wearing off. He is very reluctant to stop playing to go to the toilet (saying "no" he doesn't need to go, despite jigging around and obviously bursting for a wee, and then wetting himself).
Same with poo. He is now having one or two accidents a day. Getting the rest of his wee and poo in the loo. But I have to really "manage" him: insist that he goes to the toilet on waking, before snack time, before we go out anywhere, before we come home from anywhere, before dinner etc.
How normal is this constant prompting to try the loo?? I guess I sort of thought he would just say "mummy I need a wee", down toys, and trot off to the toilet....but it's not working out like that - he seems to need a lot more help and reminding.
Is this normal? Does it mean he is not ready?? I don't wanna put him back in nappies/pull ups when he did really "get it" (ie no accidents) for 2 weeks.
My gut feeling is that he is being a bit lazy/distracted? He is also a very wilful child (!) and I am concerned that when I now ask him if he needs to go, he will say "no" just to be contrary...! (And then he has an accident).
How on earth do I deal with this? Help!
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4 weeks into toilet training: wee and poo accidents as novelty wears off
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BotBotticelli · 27/10/2015 20:30
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