I'm really starting to resent having to compromise on how I raise my DC
I'm confident in my parenting choices but unfortunately they don't seem to be matching my DH's parenting style. Eg would be, DD is a fussy eater, I feel he has contributed to this by giving in and letting her have too much fast food and giving alternatives when she doesn't eat a meal.
Or he's more relaxed about bedtimes whereas I feel a routine is important. Neither of us are right or wrong particularly but because it's not my way, I feel his way is wrong. We were raised completely differently so if I question his way it's like saying his family did it wrong with him.
Please give me some perspective. DC's are only young and I fear this divide in our ways will deepen as new parenting challenges crop up over the years. I've tried to talk to him, and he sometimes agrees with me but then starts again a a day or two later, or he goes on the defensive and the talk isn't productive. Im aware I sound like a control freak... I didn't know that having DC would make me feel like this. If it was a friend Id say to them that they are not just your children
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Craftynonymous1 · 26/06/2015 22:04
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