NO sex drive

[claremoss]

since having my daughter (who is now almost 2) I have had no sex drive at all and I am worried I am abnormal? We have sex around once a month. Anyone else out there have the same issue? Is once a month normal? Or should it be more often? We have been together almost ten years. Thanks for any advice!

[IDontWantToBuildASnowman]

Same, zero drive since having kids, worse than yours I'd say. My youngest is over 3 so probably should do something about it, but other than feeling I SHOULD be bothered, I am not actually that bothered, so manage to ignore it. Bit of a shock tough as used to have pretty high drive pre-kids.

[ALittleFaith]

Are you on any contraception? I would say if it's been this long it's worth seeing your GP. Some medical/hormonal issues can cause lower sex drive.

[IDontWantToBuildASnowman]

I have a coil (copper, no hormones) so definitely not contraception related. Had PND which I think is more likely the culprit, not suffering now but I will say it casts a long shadow.