Hi,
I have two son's 9 and 4, lately things have been spiralling out of control, to the point I think we need help. They argue over everything, shout, take things from each other, sometimes things end up physical and I really can't cope with how things are anymore. The main problem we have is my oldest son doesn't deal with things the right way, he will take things without asking, if his younger brother is doing something he doesn't agree with, (which most of the time it doesn't affect him at all), he will take things from him without asking, shout at him or use his hands inappropriately to deal with the situation, we try and help them deal with conflicts, but it happens again and again, also I can't physically keep intervening, as it's really becoming exhausting. My dad had both of my son's the other day and they behaved this way with him too, which is unfair on my dad, who is a lot older and has less energy. Does anyone have rules in their house for siblings and consequences for when they're broken?
Thanks in advance!
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Tillytoes14 · 30/05/2015 20:33
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