Hi all, after some advice. Me and my partner have been together since my little boy was 3 he's now 6, 7 in November.
He took my son on as his own and they are the best of friends.
We have a 1 year old daughter and are awaiting the arrival of our 3rd any time now.
My son knows we are going to get married, and knows that I will then have the same surname as daddy and the girls, he also wants to marry daddy so he can have the same name.
He doesn't really understand that he isn't his bio father, he doesn't see his at all. Sometimes he calls him daddy other times he calls him by his name. We've left this up to him and whatever he feels comfortable with.
He said he would like the same name as his sisters.
So I'm not sure how I would go about this, does anyone have any advice? He doesn't have bio dad's surname, he has my maiden name.
His bio dad isn't on his birth certificate either.
We would like my OH to adopt him but not sure how we go about this.
Could I change his names with school and so on without doing anything legally for now? Only because he brings this up quite regularly so it's obviously on his mind. Thanks
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Can I give son my partners surname?
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Jenny1231990 · 15/05/2015 15:02
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