Right so me and the ex split up when our daughter was 3 months old. She is 22 months now. She has always gone every other weekend Friday afternoon- Monday afternoon. For the past 4/5 months although she is fine when she is going and happily goes in the car when she arrives home on a Monday its like she's thought she was never going to see me again. I can't move she's attached to me. She is a fantastic sleeper but for them first few nights arriving back she cries for me all day and all night! It takes about 4 days to settle her back in and for her to feel secure that I'm not going anywhere. I really don't know what to do? Do I stop her staying out over night when she's with the ex? I want them to have a relationship and I know they adore each other, I just don't want to confuse my little girl. Or in years to come for her to feel Insecure. Any advice?
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