I took my 4mo baby swimming this morning and she loved it but afterwards got vv upset in the changing room. She was screaming her little head off so I decided to feed her to see if that would calm her down. It didn't unfortunately and she didn't take the feed. While this was all happening a very rude lady approached and said she had lots of breastfeeding experience and I wasn't doing it properly as baby should;t be crying. She said I must be covering her nose with my breast and that is why she is crying and that I should be careful so as not to risk preventing her breathing!!! Now, I know that this can be an issue with breastfeeding as I was advised about it in the hospital early days. However, I really don;t think this is what was wrong, I think she was just really upset at getting cold in the changing room and was crying because of that. I made the mistake of thinking a feed would calm her when I should have calmed her before the feed. The issue is I did not appreciate this woman's intervention. I think it was the way she spoke to me more than anything. I was quite upset and I told her her advice was not appreciated and that it was her at risk of stopping breathing, not the baby!!! Oops, did I overreact and should I have just appreciated her advice, albeit I didn't agree? Or was I right to get irate about this? Anyone else had any experience of getting unwanted parenting advice in public??
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Did I overreact at unwanted breastfeeding advice??
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Latium123 · 23/01/2015 16:11
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