Ds is very bright, very capable etc. But at 4yo is, and always has been, very lazy! Yes I know he's only 4 and too young certainly to write off bless him, but how are you preparing yours for school? He could build and dismantle things all day long if i let him but has no focus for numbers, letters, art or puzzles. On a good day he astounds us with his knowledge of these things, but on a bad day I really worry he'll fall behind really quickly. When he's in the mood he'll walk for miles, when he's not he'll struggle to get through the door. He still refuses point blank to get himself dressed/ undressed or put his shoes on. He can do it, and if we bribe him with treats (fruit) he does it. But otherwise he has no motivation - everything is in his own time and his favourite phrase is 'wait a minute'. Honestly, he's such a lovely well developed boy socially and in other ways but is this normal and will he adjust to a learning environment where he doesn't get to choose what to do and when to do it? We really try to motivate him, focus his attention, encourage him to do things for himself etc but it's such a struggle! Everything is met with "but i can't" - even if we know he can!
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Starting school in Sept: any other parents of 'lazy' boys out there?
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LittleLionMansMummy · 05/01/2015 16:01
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