My dd is seven and a half months now and I'm planning on going back to work full time at Easter (so she'll be about ten months). Basically, I'm shitting myself at the thought! Both the emotional and practical sides.
Practical first.... I'm ebf-ing her and at the moment she won't take a bottle. I'm cracking on with baby led weaning in the hope that by the time she goes to nursery she'll be able to have a feed with me when she wakes up around half six, then solids at nursery, then a feed when I pick her up (prob about 4.30pm) and a final feed before bed at half six/seven. She sleeps through so no night feeds. Is this even slightly viable?! I really don't want to spend our last few months fighting to get her to take a bottle and formula. Expressing at work just isn't practical - I'm a secondary school teacher so having guaranteed time and a quiet peaceful place to express at work is not going to happen! - so I can't see that I'll be able to send her to nursery with expressed milk. Has anyone done similar?
The emotional side is really worrying me too. Because she's ebf we are together all the time, she's never been without me for more than a couple of hours and I'm worried she's going to be so miserable and frightened when I leave her. I know everyone must feel the same, just after some hand holding I guess. Am also worried I might end up bursting into tears in the middle of a lesson!
Wise words much appreciated!
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Lazymummy2014 · 05/01/2015 11:12
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