DS1 is 4.10 and in Reception class at school.
He's always been a sensitive soul (very easily scared and upset, needs lots of reassurance about how much we love him etc). He isn't very confident socially and struggles to join in with his peers. He tends to play with the girls in his class rather than running around with the boys.
School is proving to be a bit tricky for him and I am looking for some tips on how to help him become a bit more emotionally resilient.
Things that have upset him recently include:
- a couple of boys saying that they don't like him/don't want to play with him (I can understand why this one upsets him);
- not getting a Christmas card from one of the older boys at school;
- a boy at his lunch table saying that DS1 'always' has fruit for dessert when he doesn't.
So some fairly big issues (I am in touch with the school about the first one) and others totally minor. All have resulted in wobbles and tears.
We give lots of praise (specific and general), and he gets lots and lots of love and affection. Academically he is doing fine and he enjoys reading, writing etc.
Any tips/advice greatly appreciated!