I'm really bad at parenting when DD shows signs of being like me. I have talked to a counsellor about this, but not seeing her at the moment.
Anyway, the current problem...
DD (5, year 1)is very easily scared by stories, tv programmes, films. She was the only toddler who would run screaming from the library if they tried to read the Gruffalo in story time, she watches Octonauts as though it's Dr Who (from behind the sofa or with little brother as a shield). Lots of stories and books are out because there's a 'scary bit' in them. In a misjudged moment I took her to see Frozen at the cinema - we were out within five minutes!
They watch films a lot at her school - she always asks if she can do colouring or something else, and they let her.
Yesterday, she was off sick from school. I thought a film would be nice but made two poor decisions. We tried Brave first (wow, scary!) and then an innocuous looking 'Santa Paws'. Crazy screaming after twenty minutes or so as a poor orphan child is locked in a basement.
Last night - an hour of screaming and crying about being scared. I reassured as best I could - made up happy endings for both films, gave her the 'Dream bottle' she once made, and she went to sleep eventually.
We didn't have time to talk about it today, and then...they put on Polar Express at school. She only saw a tiny bit of it, but has been hysterical since she went to bed again.
I've moved her into our room, so as not to disturb DS too much, all the lights are on, she's asleep.
Aside from no more films, or much better vetting on my part, what should I do to help her? I feel like I turn into my mother - don't be silly, you're fine, etc, which is not helpful or right, or what I want to be like. On the other hand, I don't want to go to bed with her at 7pm!
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Scared DD (5). Don't know how to help her.
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Asleeponasunbeam · 12/12/2014 20:51
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