I recently started an EASY routine with my baby. She seems to be up for about an hour, half of that time seems to be feeding, nappy - 5 minutes - the active window is TINY! Its helped in that she's much more cheerful and gets to sleep better. BUT With that short window of wakefulness how do I go out, socialise, shop - do anything? I'm worried that the less she is around other people the more nervous she will become socially, and that any fluctuation in routine will throw her off balance. I think she gets a bit nervous around others anyway - she gets tearful after about 5 minutes of handling by new people. So my question:
- how to introduce socialising and normal life out etc with this narrow window? (she doesnt sleep in a pram and does only as long as I keep walking in a sling- ie wakes in shops)
- is it normal for baby not to like being handled by other people that much? How can I help her grow confidence? I dont know if it's me projecting anxiety - but after a couple of minutes on new people she starts crying which makes me think its NOT just my projection.