My sons ex is moving 350 miles away with my 11yr old grandson

[nanniesue]

My sons ex is moving away next month with my grandson. The only reason for the move is that she likes the area. Her husband is a lorry driver and so it makes no difference to him. MY son is devastated, and so am i. He has regulary seen his son every other weekend and once during the week. Has always paid maintanance. It is going to cost so much money to visit, but his ex is still expecting the same money. My grandson seems quite happy to move, probally it seems quite an adventure. To me she is just selfish, to move him away from all his family, brother sister, grandparents and cousins. I do understand anyone wanting to make a fresh start but why cant they wait just for a few more years. Written by a sad nannie

[chickydoo]

[morethanpotatoprints]

Oh Nannie.

This is heart breaking and i'm really sorry for you.

How amicable are they? Do you have a good relationship/any with xdil?
Will she help with you visiting. Could you and them come to an agreement about some access? Ah, I can't imaging how sad this must be for you