Hi, have name changed recently but I am fairly active on mumsnet, just wanted to share something a little personal, in the hope of advice....DS is 8mold and we co-sleep. We have pretty much co-slept since he was born, as he hated the cradle and would always wake within half an hour of being placed in there. It's the same with his cot now, he will not stay settled in there and will put up a screaming fest if he is put in it, but he will sleep through the night some nights now, in our bed obviously, and as I am breastfeeding, it's easy to just feed, and settle straight away. It's not gonna be forever, but we quite enjoy co sleeping at the moment, BUT:
Our sex life is dire!! There, I have said it! and it's now becoming a real problem in our marriage. We have dtd 4 times since DS was born, and we used to be fairly active. These times were the brief moments when DS was asleep in the Moses basket, after I had moved him there on his sleep, needless to say, we were interrupted by his wakings. There is no way we could dtd with him in the bed, but now we can't even do it with him the room, he is a very light sleeper, and DH has said he doesn't feel comfortable doing it next to a sleeping baby, who will no doubt wake very soon so the pressure is on to get it over and done with quickly and quietly.
We have no family around, to babysit for the night, and I am breastfeeding so that isn't really an option.
So, co sleepers, please tell me, do I really have to choose between good sex, and a goodnight sleep?
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