Ds2 is 5 days old. I remember the weepy days with ds1 but for some reason I didn't think it would be as bad this time, but if anything it's worse. In the past 24 hours i have cried because:
- I'm worried how on earth I'm going to cope with 2 dcs once dh goes back to work, esp as I am recovering from an emcs.
- The trauma caused to my body by emcs and what happened leading up to it (whole other thread) and my disappointment in my body as I had a vaginal delivery with ds1.
- Not being able to pick up ds1 at all or even cuddle him without flinching. It breaks my heart.
- Realising how big he is and how quickly he has grown up. Remembering him as a new born...
- Realising that while I'll have time with ds2 to myself when ds1 goes to nursery, i won't have that with ds1 for a long time, at least until ds2 is no longer bf.
- Thinking that after the delivery I had there's no way I could ever go through it again, and so ds2 will probably be my last child and I didn't appreciate being pregnant enough I just moaned about it, when really I should have savoured every kick.
- Being in pain from engorgement and a cracked nipple- I had this the last time and even though I eventually fed ds1 for 18m I found the early weeks v sore. Stupidly I thought I'd be better at it 2nd time around.
Amongst other things...
The enormity of having a 2nd child has just hit me, even though I've had 9m to prepare. Is this normal or am I being ridiculously self indulgent??