I think I'm finally at the end of my tether and would even admit that I'm scared of confronting her and am embarrassed in her company at times in public.
I really need some advice on how to speak to her so that she will listen and understand why I'm saying something rather than just put her hands on her ears and shout 'Muuuuuuum, Muuuuuum, Muuuuuuum' really loudly until I stop and let her have her say.
At school I got fantastic reports from the teacher, saying how helpful and pleasant she was, always eager to please. At home I get the worst of her. She just talks over me, had no respect and a horrible tone to her speaking.
It's getting worse as she now extends this to other adults. e.g. round at a friends house, the Mums were having a blether whilst the girls watched a film and she comes over to tell me to keep the noise down as she can't hear the telly. We had friends to stay over at the weekend. She had to give up her bed and sleep on a camping mat on the floor of our bedroom but she left a rather cheeky poem (which she said was a joke) for the guests which hinted that she was feeling miffed at being put out of her bed.
We've had a very busy period recently with a house move and various other things. I'm trying to get on top of things so I've more patience with her but because I've had so much on I feel I've let things slide and in picking my fights have let her away with too much rather than deal with it.
Really need some constructive words to say.
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9 year old DD - I need some advice on dealing with her
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Pinkspottyegg · 15/05/2013 15:33
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