I have two very healthy beautiful girls but feel broodier this time around than i ever did before! My partner is 10 years older than i am and says that he is too old to have any more plus he is grateful for what he has. I too am very grateful and deep down know that we can't have anymore due to money etc plus i knew how he felt about having children as he got older when we got together but i can't help but feel saddened by it all. I don't want to have to force him to do it (he would just to keep me happy) i just wish he would be broody and maybe if we wanted it together we could overcome the money thing. He finds having the children really difficult and gets terribly tired, not because he's old because he's not but he does have a very stressful job and no real rest at the weekends etc what with the kids about,i just wish he could cope better and enjoy it more. He's already said that (even though he loves them dearly) if he's known what having kids meant he never would've had them.
I could actually sit and cry right now at the thought of never being pregnant again! Has anyone got any ideas as to how to help me come to terms with this?
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How can i accept no baby number 3?
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Sunshine123 · 28/01/2004 21:59
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