DD recently turned 8 and for a while now has been pushing boundaries. Unfortunately that could have serious consequences for me as she's kicking off in the mornings and making me late for work when that happens. I've talked to her calmly to explain why we have no time to argue in the mornings. I've explained why I need my job, I've told her the basics of what would happen if I lost my job, I've got her dad to talk to her, her childminder to talk to her, we agreed a word for me to say to her when she starts kicking off, for me to say do that she remembers why she isn't to kick off in the mornings. This has been getting worse over the last 2 weeks, and she's had time outs, lost toys to the 'box' as a consequence but all to no avail. I repeatedly told her this morning if she didn't stop her arguing and shouting and refusing to get ready then I'd take every you out her room tonight. And still it didn't stop her.
So when I picked her up from After school care I went to tesco and bought 3 large containers, and every toy and book had been chucked into them. She's kept 3 books and 1 toy and is banished to get bedroom tonight and tomorrow.
I think it's sinking in how serious this is but in feeling really bad! Too harsh?
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I'm feeling bad about DD's punishment but I'm at the end of my rope
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bunchamunchycrunchycarrots · 03/05/2013 19:19
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