I am totally a loss as to what to do.
I have been split from my abusive ex for nearly a year. At the beginning I allowed access but he lied about working to get out of having the boys and has stolen from us. When I changed the arrangement to supervised visitations with his parents because he was bad mouthing me to the kids and was apparently having panic attacks he turned up late and left early, continued to bad mouth me and glorify drinking to my 10 year old.
I felt that the best thing to do was cut contact all together. I do, however, let the children see his parents and they do go to his fathers house which is up the road from his residence.
So he turned up there today, knowing that they were there. I don't know what to do. His mum let the kids have a cuddle and play before they left.
He hasn't seen them or even fought to see them since the beginning of January. He didn't turn up to his second visitation in January and offered no explanation as to why he didn't turn up. Hence me ending contact.
What do I do?? His mums lovely with the boys, however I feel like I've been totally undermined by her not removing the boys straight away.
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calamitySammy · 04/04/2013 23:20
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