After some objective opinions if you don't mind. Apologies in advance for epic post.
DS will be 2 next month, and DC2 is expected in July, all being well. DH and I both work essentially full time hours but our hours/days mean that one of us is at home 3 days a week. We both have decent jobs but have a big mortgage (London) and lots of career development/student loans so money is always tight.
We are VERY lucky and have 3 local grandparents (my Mum, MIL and FIL - who aren't together). All work but all have some days they can help with childcare. They all adore DS - he is the only grandchild on both sides so far so gets a lot of time and attention.
DS was at a staff creche at DH's work 2 days per week until he had to leave the job at short notice just before Christmas as they wanted him to work hours the creche wasn't open. It was lovely, tiny, friendly and relaxed and after a very rough first term he loved it there. Obviously he left as DH no longer works there.
So our options for the 2 days/week we need are
Grandparents (mix of the three). Pros: free! Tailored/1:1 care, they adore him. No major issues with any of them over parenting philosophies/discipline/food etc.
Cons. Hassle of sorting a 'rota' constantly which will change weekly. Hassle of getting him to them or them to him early - all are 15-20min away. Feeling like we are taking too much from them. Not liking them looking after him here/hanging around ages dropping him off (this is irrational but they have boundary issues and have been found in our bedroom etc....).
Nursery - academic as he doesn't have a place yet! convenient, local, small, friendly, creative. Cons - cost, they only take from 2 so DC2 couldn't go there, and not having a place yet!
CM - again unsure if she has spaces when we need yet, but lovely, highly recommended, flexible, local, could potentially take DC2 too.
Is it a total no brainer to go for the free grandparent option? .argh. WWYD?
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VinegarDrinker · 11/01/2013 19:20
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