DD hit another girl in her class a week ago. I was told about it, and she was given timeout during playtime at school. Her class also has a tree, whereby if you've been very naughty, your name is put at the bottom of the tree, and then you get to climb back up to the branches once your behaviour improves. (sounds a bit convoluted, but it does work).
Anyway, since this hitting incident, I've been asking her, at pick-up, where she is on the tree and whether she had hit anyone.
She's always replied that she was high up in the tree and that she hasn't hurt anyone. This morning, DH went into the classroom and saw DD's name was at the bottom of the tree. Apparently, she had hit the same girl again yesterday lunchtime.
I'm very upset that DD lied to me yesterday by telling me that she hadn't hit anyone and had behaved so well, that she was at the top of the tree . As far as I'm aware, DD has never lied to me before. In fact, she's always told me whenever she's been in trouble at school or nursery. I've always felt so close to her and trusted everything she's told me.
I know it sounds OTT, but I feel as if this is the end of our closeness in telling everything to each other. Is it? Just need someone to talk some sense into me. And also, is there anything I can do or say to DD to ensure she doesn't lie to me again, or should I accept that this is just a glimpse of things to come? All I've said to DD is that it's wrong of her to lie and that I'm disappointed in her behaviour.
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5 year old DD lied to me - not sure if I'm unreasonably upset
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CoucouCache · 26/10/2012 22:04
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