Yet another horrendous morning getting dcs ready for school. (I don't want to go into why, or advice on how to prevent it...)
Dd(8) spent over an hour on the step, for shouting and screaming. She only had to be quiet and do her 8 mins, but continued shouting and screaming the whole time. She had to get dressed on the step and had a drink on the step (after she was shouting at me that she was "dehydrating"!). Finally she apologised and went into school very contrite.
It's the end of this half term today, so we were going to go out for a hot chocolate after school. Just as we were going into school, she asked if we were still going, and I looked at her incredulously and said of course we aren't, after that behaviour. At which point ds(5) started crying and said (quite rightly) that it wasn't fair and that he hadn't done anything wrong, which is perfectly true, he got ready nicely today.
So... do I forgive and forget and take then both?
Do none of us go?
Do we go but dd has to sit there with nothing (I have done this before btw, and the cafe lady was aghast...).
Over to you. I'm drained by it all. Thank you.
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user12785 · 25/10/2012 09:43
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