My 2 yo DS is going through a little bit of a phase where he won't come with me when I ask him to.
2 examples today - we were leaving playgroup (partly because he refused to stop throwing sand when asked - another story!) and I had told him a couple of times that we were going etc.
Also, we went to the library, and when it was time to go back to the car, he just wouldn't budge.
I am 8 months pregnant so I don't like hauling him around, and also just hate manhandling him generally as he kind of slides to the floor and I just hate the whole grabby thing, it feels horrid.
So, at both places, I basically said "right, I'm off to the car, I'll meet you there" (it was safe for him to follow), and he immediately ran after me, screaming and crying.
I don't want him to think I'm leaving without him but short of lifting him to the car, what are my other options?
Also (on a tangent here!) what do you do when you're out, and they refuse to stop doing something that you have asked? DS's recent one is chucking stuff. I obviously take the chucked item away (as I do at home) but today it was kind of sandy earth, so not something I can pack away. In the end we had to just leave (and I told him why) as I had used my arsenal of "let's not throw sand, let's throw a ball; stop throwing sand as it will go in someone's face; STOP THAT RIGHT NOW" and was basically out of ideas.
sigh
We had a lovely day yesterday, and today it was just one thing after another.
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Is this a legit parenting "thing" or am I being mean?
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Ozziegirly · 24/10/2012 05:56
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