I don't know if anyone else feels like this but I just feel guilty all the time. I have a DD 4, she is perfect and seems like a really happy child but I just worry all the time about not doing enough with her, that she is (and will be) an only child, I find myself forcing myself into this cheerful happiness of making pancakes, doing jigsaws, visits to the park, swimming etc and 'going through the motions'.
I live abroad and have no real friends and no family here and just feel a little overwhelmed I think. The language barrier makes it hard, silly worries get blown out of all proportion - my husband and I have recently separated and I worry about the effect of that on her too. (She seems fine and gets much more attention from her father now) but I still worry about it all.
I also feel people judge me (I am in Spain and people are nosey/very interactive with all small children) but it just feels intrusive to me - I feel I am turning a bit mad! My DD has a very English routine (it's all I know) and is in bed by 8pm - here 4 year olds are up until at least 10pm - if not later, I can't seem to find my confidence as a parent.
I need a bit of perspective. Does anyone else feel like this? Worry, worry, worry... (not just the living abroad thing, just parenting in general)
Any advice/empathy would be great and make me feel alot more confident in my parenting skills. A kick in right direction is also most welcome!
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calypso2008 · 03/10/2012 19:52
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