So here's how it went. Picked up ds from preschool, then dd1 from her after school club. Bumped into friends on the way home so invited them to pop in for a cuppa. Meanwhile, ds had had an accident and was adamant that he didn't want his trousers changed and dd2 decided she was tired and hungry. I realised then that the only way I cope after school really is with telly and getting cross, since I couldn't really do either with guests. And felt really silly for inciting them in when my three are clearly not feeling on top form. Oh-and dd1 was being deliberately awkward and saying and doing stuff to upset ds. I just feel as if I spend no proper time with anyone and fight fires with all three of them. It makes me feel like a useless mother and worried that they'll hate each other when they're older too. And me too.
I realise that that's a bit rambling and incoherent-what I'm after is an idea if everyone else has lovely time after school and if so-how?
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I am useless at the after school/before bedtime slot.
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Molehillmountain · 26/09/2012 17:37
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