Hi - I am very new on here but didn't know where else to turn. My 17 year old son has got him self in to lots of trouble both with the police and with family, he has no job, his girlfriend ended their relationship and he said he has suicidal thoughts but refuses to see the doctor.
I have been a single parent for 25 years (I have an older son) and have always worked full time to try and provide the best for them. Unfortuantely my 17 year old has always been very difficult and was diagnosed with Conduct Disorder when he was 13 and subsequenly Statemented after being excluded from 3 secondary schools.
He stole a large amount of money from me a few years ago and despite pressing charges, the consequence was he just had to visit a social worker each week - hence this hasn't done anything to prevent him from stealing and he has continued to steal from friends and family over the past few years.
Finally, 4 weeks ago a got him a small car for his 17th Birthday which he took out without permission, hit a tree, wrote the car off and ended up in hospital having plastic surgery on his leg - very lucky boy! We are awaiting a court date. Since then he stole from our lodger and used his cc to shop online - awaiting another court date.
I really am at the end of my tether - he truly believes he hasn't done anything wrong but still says he feels suicidal.
I'm trying my best to find somewhere that he can talk to somebody who will explain the consequences of his constant stealing/bad behaviour, as well as try and get him some much needed help.
Apologies for my post being so long - I really needed to get this off my chest :
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Turnip12 · 09/05/2012 16:15
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