Our semi has very thin walls, so you can hear everything from next door and their 4 kids. The kids always seem very polite etc when we see them, and we never hear them playing up. But the parents are TERRIBLE. They dont hit them or anything, but:
- They swear at them ALL the time, usually at least one 'f'ing' per sentence, and I've heard the Mum call one of them a c**t before now.
- They are constantly shouting at them about cleaning, which begins at 6.30am, and carries on after school.
- The baby is often shouted at to shut up (10monthsish), and was told he'd have his head knocked off once.
- At 3.30am this morning, the eldest was called out of bed to stop the baby crying (he's about 14).
- The Mum always tells them how much she hates them, and how they have ruined her life, and one day she'll kick them out, or wont be there when they get home.
- They dont always seem to be out of the house during school hours, so I think they're missing at least some education.
I'm worried both for the kids - it seems like a crap life to me - and also because ds is becoming aware now, and he'll pick up the language soon.
Or do you think I'm reading too much into it? The parents are polite when they say hello in the street etc. I know everyone has off days, but I've only ever heard the Mum be nice once, to the baby. Maybe I'm overreacting because its so easy to hear their private lives?
The kids are about 14 and 12 (from previous marriage), and 3 and 10months.