My very gentle DS1 is 6yrs 9 months old (Yr2).
He's very imaginative and thoughtful, really not into stereotypical boy stuff like football, martial arts, Star Wars and the like (I have DS2 for that!). He tends towards being quite anxious and lacking self esteem.
Anyway, in September he started going to a local music / drama club, and straight away he absolutely loved it. They take children from Yr 2 up to Yr 10/11s (grouped appropriately), most of the adult organisers have day jobs as teachers / TAs, so it's pretty well run, and he was overjoyed to find a club full of boys like him.
Last week they sent home a letter saying that they would be holding auditions during the next session for parts in the Christmas play. He was absolutely adamant that he was going to audition (heart set on being a shepherd).
I was a bit torn then, because I really didn't think he would get a part, so I explained to him all about how the audition process worked, and how not everyone would get a part, and that probably even Rupert Grint (his favourite actor ever) was rejected for parts. But he was determined to give it a go.
Anyway, he's come home this evening with a very brave face on but then just lost it at bedtime and sobbed his little socks off - needless to say he hasn't got any part as anything and he's devastated.
So I've reiterated all my previous Rupert Grint chat, plus told him about times that his daddy or I have missed out on things, and told him how very proud I am of him for being brave enough to try, and that I understand he's disappointed but he won't feel like that forever.
Problem is, he's now saying he just doesn't want to be in it at all (he's still able to be in the choir).
If you were me, would you let him leave it on the basis that he's only 6 and his confidence has been knocked, or really try to encourage him to do it on the basis that it's character building?
(before anyone points it out to me, I do know that these are classic first world problems and really no biggie.... but then I'm 35 and DS1 is only 6)
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Poor old DS1 is crushed
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ExpectoPatronum · 13/10/2011 23:00
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