DD1 is almost 3 and DD2 is almost 5 weeks. That probably just about sums it up!
DD1 has turned overnight from a lovely little girl to a nightmare toddler with full on tantrums, strops, general stubbornness and argumentativeness. While I try so hard to remember just to get down to her level and talk calmly, I feel I am failing.
She won't eat food, hardly even snacks, just tells me she doesn't like it and breaks down into hysterics. I refuse to make a big deal of it but am so worried she isn't getting enough throughout the day.
She will not do anything she is told - and I can see myself just giving in to her every time, because I am so tired from having a newborn as well. I am trying to go a bit easy on her as she's just got a new sister, but I know I need to be stronger...
To add to it, she has decided she no longer needs her afternoon nap. She is wrong, and the afternoons are pure hell as she drags her exhausted and grumpy little self around the house declaring that everything I do is wrong, and she doesn't "liiiiiiiike that, Mummy" (whine whine whine)
I know it's something many people go through, and hopefully it will last, but it is SO hard. DH has had a day off work today and has been great with her but even he has said he can't stand it!
Can anyone make any suggestions? Yesterday I ended up sitting in the middle of the [untidy and unhoovered] living room floor and sobbing while DD1 had an enormous strop over a piece of cotton wool!
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pookamoo · 07/10/2011 18:51
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