There's one kid in the year who is rude, says 'bad' words and basically bullies other kids - deliberately targeting those to exclude from the games 'you can't play'. Sounds familiar to many mums, I know!
He always targets new kids too - telling them they aren't allowed to play or join in games, telling everyone else that they are stupid/ugly/smelly...
I know that when they are 7/8 this is how kids can behave but his behaviour does seem to 'rub off' on other kids. I have noticed some of the other boys copying his rudeness, name calling, pushing etc.
He has decided that DS 'can't play', but his other friends can. It's as if he is trying to alienate him and take his friends away. He has managed to lose just about every friend he has made so far - they have all moved away and he has had some lovely friends in the past.
DS isn't all that bothered (he says) but when I ask him what he did at lunchtime and he says 'Oh I just walked about by myself'
me 'why?'
DS 'because [brat-faced-brat-the-brat-boy] says I can't play with them me 'what about XXX?'
DS 'oh he was playing with BFBTBB'
I do feel so sad for him!
What can a mummy do? Any thoughts?
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wahwahwah · 13/09/2011 18:37
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