would youbelieve that in the 18mths since ds was born she has never minded my 2 children alone by herself. shes 54. not 74.
prior to that she might have looked after dd once/twice when i was at an ante natal appt.
this week i have been asked by a friend to do something for her, no problem as dh was goingto mind kids, now thats changed for him and he has to go to work
i ring my mum , its for 2 1/2hrs!, and she tells me oh we (her and partner) were thining of going to town friday you know for the christmasy thing!
i asked them to my house for christmas day adn they refused politely.they arent religious not really into christmas "thingy", i am surprised shes remembering to talk about santa to the kids!
my kids are easy to mind and i just dont know what to say now,
and i cant understand why does she not think that in my 3 yrs parenting a wee hour or two in the shops by myself would be nie - shes never offered. i have asked at least a half dozen times since the summer and there has always been something, i reallydid think after the last time she might change as i was quite huffy.
and ironically she was here last week to bring gifts for the kids from france but forgot them so she said i'll come down next week, ie this week so whats wrong with babysitting when u do visit?
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hermykne · 05/12/2005 21:42
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