I have a DS aged 2.6 and am at the stage where everyone around me seems to be having a baby or falling pregnant. I have given DP the last few months to decide whether he wants another child and last night he admitted that he doesn't really want one. I am absolutely gutted
What are your best arguments for having DC2 ? Or reasons for not having an only child ? I really want to try and convince him, although I appreciate that he has a right to his opinion and it is not fair of me to bully him into it. His core reason is that he is happy with DS and can't be bothered with the hassle of starting all over again with a new baby. He doesn't seem to be able to think long term about this and consider the impact his decision will have on DS2. I know that DS is a very happy little boy and that we can try to ensure he will have lots of friends round to play but it is just not the same as having a sibling in my eyes. I am really sad at the thought of DS being lonely and growing up without a buddy. I personally have no broodiness or desire to be pregnant again - my yearning is purely to provide DS with what I think will be best for him. Both DP and I have a sibling, had great childhoods and are still close to our siblings. I just can't understand why DP doesn't want to same for DS. My greatest fear is that DP's decision has been made out of laziness and selfishness and he will live to regret it. Any advice would be much appreciated.
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gomurray · 01/07/2011 08:06
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