I have 3. DC3 is 4 months, and inevitably awake from tea time onwards (4-5 pm). He's not especially settled, and trying to get the meal out and the children fed, even if I abandon eating myself, is a moderate nightmare most of the time with his crying. After teatime I have the gauntlet of tidying up and bath time to get though. My husband usually gets home around bath time/bed time.
I have a fabric sling, but his screaming in my ear usually makes me more angst. So far I keep resorting to putting the poor chap in the other room to scream for 5-10 mins whilst I get the tea out, then cuddling him til I get the others down and wiped, then either ordering the first two around like a demented sergeant major to tidy up or putting him in a different room again whilst I rush around tidying for 5 minutes.
What do you do? I feel like I am in a lose-lose situation. However easy I plan the evening it usually goes tits up. I am aware this says a lot about my reaction to his crying, it breaks me slightly each time to hear him yelling for a cuddle.
TIA
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Need advice for evening routine with screaming baby, please.
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missorinoco · 24/06/2011 19:36
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