This is a bit of an emotional dump but I feel my husband is not entirely happy being a parent.
We have a DD (5 Months old) . It was a planned pregnancy and my hubby has always been really keen to have children. However, now while I know that he absolutely loves our little girl he seems to resent the direction our life has taken.
He's concerned about his career. He doesn't like being the only earner. He feels weighed down with responsibility. He doesn't have time for writing or any other hobbies that he feel fulfil him. I also think he resents me being at home.
I do understand how he feels but part of me wants to scream 'Stop being so self centred'. I just wondered how other people cope when the babymoon is over? I am hoping things will get easier as she gets older.
I really must reinforce that my hubby is a lovely, kind sensitive man and father and I am not looking at giving him a bashing. More interested in other peoples experiences
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Cbell · 01/06/2011 09:59
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