Really struggling at the moment and hope that someone has some words of wisdom for me. We have two beautiful, wonderful DC and as both DH and I are from large families, I had hoped that DH would agree to adding a third child to our family, given time. We have talked around and around it so many times, even deciding to go for it and then DH changed his mind again.
After much soul searching, I've come to the realisation that DH does not want any more children and this is something that I have to accept. Even though I'm hurt and disappointed that DH's decision is final, it can't be a 'deal breaker' and I need to figure out a way to cope with the end of my child bearing years (even though they are not over, as I'm in my early thirties) against my wishes.
I've sold or given away all the baby paraphernalia this week. I've rearranged the bedrooms and had a good clear out so there's nothing left. I feel so sad but I needed to do this to be able to move on.
How do I move on from this?
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Coping with the end of the baby years
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JaneBennet · 27/05/2011 16:00
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