now... i have multiple issues at the moment. One of them is the 4 mo sleep regression, which means DS is waking up every 2 hours. But putting that aside for a moment, i need some advice on the act of getting him to sleep.
During the day i am determinedly putting him down in his cot to sleep, but he is generally asleep when he gets there, usually by me rocking him in my arms or having fed him (although this is unusual for naps)
in the evening i seem to go for ages trying to feed him to sleep after my DD (2.4) has gone to bed. He will generally finally go off at around 9, which is slowly improving (I think).
The question is, should i be putting him donw in his cot awake and if i crack this during the day, will it mean i can do it at night? I feed him to sleep because the other option is just too noisy, frankly... and the cluster feeding involves a certain amount of crying. How can i bring his bedtime forward - it seems if i get him in his cot any earlier, he will just wake up after half an hour or so crying and i just latch him on again.
any tips on how to soothe him whilst he is in his cot are also most welcome as he just seems to get more and more upset.
... or alternatively should i just leave it and hope he sorts himself out?!
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should know better - 2nd child, 4mo sleep help required
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KSal · 19/01/2011 12:15
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